When I wake up and see her soft, undressed body beside me, her eyes closed and mouth slightly open, like a dainty little angel that just fell from the sky, I feel a burning desire to love her, badly. These are the feelings of men who wake up with a hard-on, and men who are simply in love with the idea of morning sex. Unfortunately, most women do not share the same enthusiasm for morning glory as they feel bedroom activity is best reserved for nighttime. The sexual expressions of men and women have for centuries been a subject for debate. Here’s a lowdown on why men crave for a steamy sexual romp at that hour, while women would rather get on with the day, pronto.
Says Dr. Kamal Khurana, a Delhi-based marriage and relationship expert, “Sex is a biological need, and you tend to relish it most when relaxed. A man feels most expressive when he wakes up as fantasies are touching him at that hour. And to find his partner lying next to him triggers an urge for sex.” Dr. Khurana believes that place and availability are also reasons to initiate early action among men. “But in the case of women, she needs to be emotionally triggered first,” he adds.
Then why do women not feel that emotional connect in the very hours, and are in a rush to begin the day? “In India, such a trend has been identified only in the last decade. In today’s scenario both the partners go for work and return spent at the end of the day. The stress levels are very high at nighttime, and to get into the mood for a stormy lovemaking session may not come naturally,” explains Dr. Bhavna Barmi, senior clinical psychologist at Escorts Heart Institute.
Do you feel excited in the wee hours? - Man-Woman - Relationships - Life - The Times of India